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Post by cnu5000 on Mar 9, 2012 9:02:10 GMT -5
I know alot of people here complain that they are pushed to have children even if they choose to be CF.
However, I happen to live in an area where alot of people don't have children so it there is less pressure. Also many people agree that my husband would not be good father material(he is a solid CF).
However, to be honest, part of me feels has mixed feelings when people say I made the right decision for me-they just don't see me as a mother and they don't think I would make a good mother. While part of me is glad to have the support and the input that some people think been a parent would be a bad decision for e another part of me feels a little defensive and feels what do you mean I would be a lousy mother? I feel a little defensive at having my totally hypothetical parenting skills challenged.
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Post by happy2bchildfree on Mar 9, 2012 16:53:40 GMT -5
I wish more people would tell me that I made the right choice for me, rather than telling me that I would have been a good mother when in reality they don't have a clue. I KNOW I wouldn't have made a good parent and when someone tells me otherwise, they are just showing their cluelessness.
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